Xconfessions By Erika Lust: Soulsex with John & Annie442
There is no age limit on good sex
We are John and Annie and we believe there is another way to fuck. We call it ‘Soulsex’. It creates great harmony in all areas of the relationship, it brings you closer to your partner and to yourself in so many ways. If everyone had sex this way there would be no arguments, no fighting, no war! Everything is slow; each person focused on their own sensations, their body and mind. Simply doing this increases the combined pleasure and ecstasy that you experience with your partner. Soulsex doesn’t focus on a particular goal, it does not depend on an outcome such as orgasms or ejaculation. However, this does not mean that there is no orgasmic experience, in fact everything becomes so highly sensitive that orgasmic experiences occur with every contact, with every tender touch. There are no taboos and whatever feels good is good. It’s different every time and always deeply mindful. If everyone made love this way, they too would experience a deep intimate pleasure that creates an inseparable, natural bond. We want to share Soulsex with the whole world, we want to show them the beauty that is being created when love, lust and mind embrace.
It would be an honour if you would give us the chance to share our experience with the world. We’d love to make a film with you that shows love the slow way. ” — By John & Annie
Erika’s comment: I’m very happy to have had the chance to work with this extraordinary couple, John and Annie, to show the beauty of senior sex, and to show that older people have desires too that are worth celebrating in adult cinema. Soul Sex was a very special shoot for me and my entire crew. It was also John & Annie first time performing in an adult film. The actual sex scene could not have been further from a typical, mainstream set. They started with some beautiful words of intention before starting their slow and tender “soul sex”. They spent much more time touching, cuddling, holding, and gazing at eachother than performers usually would. They were also very vocal throughout and showed strong communication skills to tell each other what they were enjoying.
I hope that Soul Sex will contribute to normalising Senior Sex. I want to make seniors visible again in the public discussions about sex and pleasure and I want them to be represented in porn. People think that older bodies can’t possibly be sexy or desirable because we have been fed the message through advertising, television and films that only young bodies are attractive. It’s time we start shifting how we view senior sex.
Performers: Annie and John Campbell